Your animal has been showing you something. This is where you finally answer it.
A live weekly room where the work happens underneath, at the subconscious level where the patterns live, with your animal as the read out. When you shift, they could be the first to show it.
you've already had a piece of this with me. this is where it keeps going.
A room where your animal gets to be the teacher.
You already know your animal reads what you feel. In here we start from there. Every other week there's subconscious work aimed at getting a nervous system to come down. In between, we look at what our animals are showing us and learn from each other. They can see the blind spots we can't, and they're here to help us see them and shift, if we want to.
And it doesn't stay with the animal. A member with two horses came in for them. A few months on she had raised her prices, said no to her brother for the first time, and was sleeping better than she had in years. The business sorted itself out while she was looking the other way.
Most of what gets made in that room never leaves the room.
Something shifted. Then life did what life does.
Maybe it was a Reset, three guided audio sessions at home, and the house got quieter. Maybe it was a workshop, or a reading, and for a while you could feel the two of you were different. Then the thing ended, life got loud again, and the old edge crept back. That's how it goes for a lot of people, and it's why The Sofa exists.
A single session or a recording can open a door. It can't keep walking you through it, and it can't tell you what your animal is showing you next month. That's what a room does. Every Wednesday there's somewhere to bring what happened, people who've been where you are, and the subconscious work underneath it all, every other week, so your nervous system keeps getting the message that it can come down.
This isn't about building a crutch. Sleeping pills work until you stop, and then you can't sleep. In here the message gets repeated until it's yours. Mix it up. The order doesn't matter. Start wherever you are.
On day one, and every month after.
Live at 4pm EST on Zoom, every week, for an hour or so.
Every session opens with a check in, and that's where somebody keeps score for you. When you're in it every day it's hard to see, so we get to say it out loud: it's only been four months, look how far you've come. One member writes her wins down in the car so she doesn't forget to bring them.
We talk it through
A pattern, an emotion, a practical situation like the vet or the carrier, with everyone's animals threaded through it and everyone learning from each other.
- Step sheet in the portal, replay within 24 hours
- Replay watchers' questions answered live the next week
We reinforce it together
Half a live call, then a guided subconscious journey as a group that reinforces what we talked about the week before, at the level where the patterns live, so the shift holds without you having to remember anything under pressure.
- Released as an MP3 with binaural beats and an extended ending
- Built for a busy mind. Listen anywhere, on repeat
The one that wasn't for her is the one that worked.
A member of about a year's standing came in scared to ride. One Wednesday the journey was about leaving and being left. She listened along anyway, the way you do when you're in the room, and had no use for it at all.
A Reset is three guided audio sessions aimed at one named thing, and it does that job. The topic on the tin is rarely the topic that lands. Every other week in here there's a new one, and underneath it's the same message to your nervous system: you can come down now.
"The I'm doing this to my dog thing? We're not owning that crap. That's not what we own here in The Sofa."
On your own with the mirror, it's easy to turn what you've learned into evidence against yourself. In the room, somebody catches it before you can, usually me, sometimes the woman next to you who did the same thing last month.
Wins from the room.
Four passes. Come and go as you like.
All prices in USD. Every pass renews automatically until you cancel, and you can cancel any time from inside your account.
Test it out for a month. If you like it, stay. If you don't, no big deal.
Take the 1 Month PassOne specific thing you want to shift. Enough time to work through the layers.
More than one thing going on. Six months to go through a few layers and let them settle.
The continuous journey. All the library, every new journey, everything I release this year.
The things people say before they join.
A chapter ahead. Not finished.
You know me. A whippet who is sensitive and leash reactive and a chapter ahead of where he was, and a horse who runs the herd. They show me my own work every day, which is why I'm in that room every Wednesday too.
Test it out for a month. If you like it, stay. If you don't, no big deal.
Wednesdays at 4pm EST, live or on replay. A month at a time, or a year. You'll know it's working because your animal will show you, probably before you've noticed it yourself.
Join The SofaQuestions about how it works? Email me and I'll answer myself.
The practical bits.
These programs are not a substitute for veterinary care, or professional behavioural training, and we encourage you to follow all treatments prescribed by your veterinarian and or your behaviourist, as our techniques are meant to complement, not replace, professional medical care & Behavioural training.
Results are not typical. In fact a lot of hard work and dedication is necessary to
achieve success with your relationship